Thursday, July 27, 2006

regret

I've always wanted to correct the past. Only hypocrites articulate that they have lived life without regrets. Every single action that we make have rooted out of branched decisions, perhaps from our autonomous response to the uncertainty of to be or not to be, to do or not to do. Unless thwarted by a mishap or anything that can cause mental distress, Karen Horney (psychoanalyst) is resolute that "We are all neurotic individuals who have irrational needs."
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i was searching for the great OAD's a kind of burning when suddenly i landed on this blog. hmmm quite interesting i can say... kinda saw myself in her... a bit...

so again, out of boredam, since my life lately has been waking and sleeping, waiting for something to do, or somehitng to happen. not pathetic just a relaxed life, very relaxed at that.

anyway... so i read her entry then i got kinda pissed when i read something about re-living the past, i got offended when she said that people who convey that they don't have regrets are hypocrites.. let me just grab her hair and smolder her face.

What im trying to say here is that, when you look back and rethink about the decisions you made that led to the many things that has happened in your life, and you don't regret it, that doesn't mean youre a hypocrite, it just means that you were able to understand why it had happened to you, and when there are no regrets… it means you've learned something from them...

But since you're ranting that you regret your past decisions, then my dear, you haven't learned anything yet. Grow Up!

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